Friday 2 September 2011

They're growing so fast..

Ive just spent the morning shopping for a school uniform for my little boy. He is going in to juniors next week, juniors! How has that happened, it was only two minutes ago that he was starting Reception.

The lovely Liz Jarvis wrote a piece on her blog last week about wishing their lives away and it hit home, time has gone so fast, so with the littlest, Im reminded of a poem that Ive had stuck to my calender for the last seven years. I dont know who wrote it, but Im thankful they did. If anyone ever finds out, please say thanks for me :)

Babies grow up
we have learned to our sorrow
so try leaving jobs
that can wait till tomorrow.

Children grow older
while you're not looking
and years stretch ahead
full of cleaning and cooking.

So keep quiet cobwebs
and dust go to sleep,
I'm cuddling my baby
and babies don't keep.




Tuesday 23 August 2011

Our day at Trevarno..

Before the riots, before the worry, before working 23 hours a day and before sleeping every hour to get over it, we were a little family of four, and yesterday we were that again and a walk in a garden made it totally perfect.

We are on our holidays in Cornwall at the moment, and you know what the great British weather is like, one minute your heading to the beach and the next your grabbing your raincoats, but we wouldn’t have it any other way would we! So after much deliberation we decided to head out to Trevarno gardens and estate near Helston, I had heard some good things about it, so thought I’d put it to the test!

And what a great decision it was!

They say you can explore and lose yourself in 70 acres of gardens and grounds of the estate, we didn’t get around to see anywhere near 70 but you can most certainly lose yourself in the beautiful surroundings and the fantastic woodland walks which kept the children entertained for hours!
We got there mid-morning and found it quite quiet for a summer day in the school holidays, which was perfect for us, but that did mean that we had picked a day when the children’s entertainment wasn’t on. Not that you would need it, the place was amazing!


With an adventure playground, woodland walks, reindeer, wild birds and beautiful flowers there really is a huge amount to see and do on your day here. The fact that peacocks stroll throughout the estate just adds that extra magical feel!

Within two minutes of arriving the kids had run off to find the peacocks that you could hear from the car park, and they weren’t disappointed! They are beautiful and spend most of their time on the lawn by the conservatory tea room.


After a short stop and run around, they disappeared through the wonderful hidden tunnels and tracks to find the woodland adventure play area which is ideal for all ages, mine are one and seven and they both spent an hour here very happily!

After a play in there we went back to the tea room for some lunch, and although a little expensive, it certainly got our vote! Using only seasonal food, it’s all homemade and it really is delicious! (the deserts are to die for!). The kids had a lunch box each which cost £4.75. It was a tad more than we are used to paying for lunch boxes, but you do get value for money as it included a huge cheese roll, fresh fruit drink, dried fruit bar, crisps, sesame seed bar and a chocolate bar! I’m pretty sure we could have shared it with them!

So after re-fuelling and a quick use of the on-site toilets and baby changing room (which are both excellent and very clean) we walked back in to the gardens. Mr N wanted to check out the branch line station at the
very top of the gardens. They have recently opened a platform at Trevarno which is currently being restored by the Helston Railway Preservation Company, an entirely voluntary group, working to re-open the most southerly branch line in the UK. There is a working diesel shunter, which offers rides on certain days, and carriage train which is currently under restoration. It is open though for you to pop your head in and look around, including the drivers carriage. The boys loved this!

We finished the day with a stroll around the lake with its Victorian boathouse, which looks like something out of a film. In fact if you Google Trevarno gardens it is more than likely that you will find a picture of this lake, and I can assure you that it looks just like these photos, quiet, tranquil and totally magical.

A quick stop to say bye to the peacocks on the way out and our day at Trevarno was complete. The kids had a great time, and we thoroughly enjoyed the walk together, all in all it was perfect and we can’t wait to go again!



Trevarno Gardens is near Helston, and is easily accessible from St.Ives, Helston and the A30. Sat Nav users use TR13 0RU. It’s open every day 10.30 – 5pm (except Christmas and Boxing Day)

www.trevarno.co.uk

Its been a while..

And this is why...

Perfect :)


Thursday 4 August 2011

Saturday is nearly here - YAY!

Well I've nearly made it! Only two more days and my little boy will be coming home :)

I wish you could all see my face right now, I am literally beaming!

He managed to call this evening. We have been trying every night but apparently the valley where they are staying has intermittent signal (yeah right!). He sounded happy, and was enjoying himself, he's made loads of friends, and was so happy to speak to his sister.

I've missed him so much. I've never spent this long away from him, ever! But at the same time, its made me realise that he isn't my little baby any more, well he'll always be my baby, just a big one!!

Any way, this is more of a little photo entry really, and seeing as Ive bored you all with my rambles about how much I have missed him, I thought I'd share with you some of my favourite shots of him!


Can you guess where he is yet?! Our first family trip abroad was to Australia (we dont do things by half!), he was 2, and he was so well behaved!


Always the cool dude! Just like his Dad.


Is it wrong to say that they look alike!


Although he was only four, he looks so much older, I can almost see what he is going to look like when he is grown up. One of my favourite photos of us, taken on the largest wheel in the world in Tokyo.


Being so much braver than I was, on the Ocean Park Cable Car in Hong Kong. My brave boy :)


Having fun in Falmouth!!


Demanding quarters at the top of Trump Tower in the beautiful New York City. Our favourite holiday!


By far the best looking member of The Wanted - don't you think!!


My beautiful boy :) Saturday can't come soon enough!!!

x

Wednesday 3 August 2011

The Gallery : Birth

This is the first time I've entered 'The Gallery' and I'm quite excited and a little nervous!

Naturally when I saw that the theme for this week was Birth I automatically thought of the births of both of my children, I will probably get around to telling you all about them but for now they are stories for another day!

This story is about me. The birth, or should I say re-birth of.. me!

I've had an interesting year really. I knew exactly this time last year that my marriage was falling apart and I pretty much gave up. In November we decided to live separately and for the first few months I was a wreck. I'm almost embarrassed to think about the mess I was in, but in February something clicked and I decided enough is enough.

In February it was the 15th anniversary of my Mums death, she was 49. All this wallowing and self-pitying I was doing was wasting a life that I had, my two beautiful children were seeing the very worst of me, and during the few days that month when I don't want to see the world, it was like she visited and gave me one of those looks - just like she did when I was in trouble! And something in me woke up.

Instead of feeling sorry for myself it was time to make changes. So I did!

I made a list of things I AM going to do, and the first was a marathon. Every year my lovely mum would sit there and watch all the runners finishing the London Marathon and promise that one day she would do it. Well she never got around to it, and I promised that that wouldn't be the same for me.

So I convinced a friend that although I wasn't ready for running one, I could probably walk one and with that we signed up for the Shine Marathon in Manchester raising money for Cancer Research. Training was so much fun. I lost three stone and I was feeling like the person I was 15 years ago, O & L had the mum they deserved and I literally haven't been happier. I trained every week, meaning that my husband had the children more and as time went past we got to know each other again.

When the weekend of the marathon came, we were back to dating and falling in love again. It was amazing, and when I crossed that finish line, in more pain than I have ever been in, the only person I wanted to see and speak to was him.

So my photo this week is of my medal. Its not a great photo, but it means the world to me! It reminds me of how far I have come, how far we have come and it reminds me of my amazing achievement. Not only that but I raised over £334 for Cancer Research!

When I finished that marathon I was the person I had always wanted to be, and I haven't looked back!